Hi,
This was the main feature in this week, Mind Your Body; a supplement that comes with The Strait Times.
It mentioned that experiences, environment and society will shape a child's perception of what is right and wrong, according to a psychologist.
I totally agreed with the editor that we, parents, should be a busybody for our children's sake.
In case you missed it, here is a summary of some key messages....
Consistency is key to imparting values you want your child to have.
Here is a few pointers on how parents can influence their children's moral values:
- Show, do not just tell
Younger children understand the concepts of love and care best in the form of hugs, kisses and other forms of physical intimacy.
- Engage his empathy
We should use feeling laden statements to reinforce the child's ideas about what is right; eg. You were so kind when you shared your cookies with your classmates.
- Dig behind the bad behaviour
Children sometimes behave badly to test the limits, to express their anger or to seek attention.
- Do as I do, do as I say
Parents need to share their values with their children. How parents behave also modifies the child's perceptions of right and wrong.
- Teach accountability
Children should learn that their actions have consequences. Typical children will show remorse, feel guilt and learn from their mistakes.
I know most of us may feel that it is easy said than done but you must find the time and commitments to want to do it, in the first place.
Happy parenting........!
David
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